In what ways is competitive drive a plus and a minus?

While we talk a lot about life after sports being a very personal experience, there are some things we have in common no matter what the sport or the level. One is focus. In order to compete at a higher level, we all needed to be able to lock in on a goal or an activity, and block out distractions that might otherwise derail the outcomes. In some ways, that is a real asset in life after sports, and yet in others it can be a real detriment. 

One of the many attributes that former competitive athletes bring to their lives beyond sports is the ability to apply the same kind of drive and focus to the world beyond. We bring an ability to function amongst multiple distractions, while pushing ahead on complex tasks or decision-making. It’s one of the many things that makes us successful. There is absolutely a need for people who can block out distractions and varying conditions while getting things done. 

That said, there are some ways in which a condensed focus can work against us relative to a pursuit of fulfillment. A hard-charging approach to work is one thing, but there is an advantage to slowing down and taking a wider view when we are exploring wider opportunities for hobbies, creative outlets, or even a new career path. Other liabilities inherent in a hyper focused and driven approach might include a challenge to creative or divergent thinking, or a difficulty for other people with whom we work, but do not share this trait. 

This is a topic best discussed by a larger group, and from a variety of perspectives. To the discussion: . 

  • In what ways is drive and competitive focus an advantage? 
  • In what ways is it a detriment? 
  • What are some strategies that a competitive person can employ to work well with others who do not have that experience?